The experiences faced by prostitutes affect their emotions, and mostly in a negative way. Insecurities do great damage to relationships, which I have experienced. Often, my insecurities caused me to lash out on my partners. My estimate is that a relationship with a prostitute can be successful if she is ready to bring love into her life.
As her lover, you should also be respectful of her needs and desires, as she might not want to give up her work. Some can, some cannot. Often, I wish my ex-fiance could have understood me better. But its not his fault. Neither of us knew I was seriously confused about what I wanted in life — after all, I was only 22 back then.
He accepted me as I was. Instead, I gave up, because I knew I was only capable of hurting him. I could not promise him anything, because I was too much confused back then — things made sense only later.
But what I mentioned above illustrates that escort-client relationships are tricky. They are often unsuccessful as either the client cannot commit or the escort cannot compromise her work.
So far, I have been in two serious relationships one currently on-going with men who originated as my clients. Khalid doesnt have the means to give me enough financial support, therefore I refuse to commit myself to him.
Instead, the two men who got me, my ex and the Sheik, helped me lovingly and generously. My ex provided for me financially, and so does my current partner. That aspect alone is a deal-breaker whether I like to admit or not. My poisoned theory is: Imagine you are a political elite.
You have millions of people in your nation-state, and those people need to be mobilized and controlled. How to control these masses of people? Firstly, you need to assert your dominance. You need to instil fear into the minds of those millions of people, because fear is a great form of control. Thus, you create structures and have massive propaganda campaigns that support your ideals. In this structure, you create strict rules that dictate what is acceptable and what is not acceptable.
After all, in this mentality, women are the producers of future generations. Then, you control the sexuality of women, and by doing that you can control the future children being born into your kingdom. A woman who has sex for pleasure is totally wrong and bad!
The point in my little story above is to illustrate that prostitution is solely unacceptable in contemporary society because it clashes with the interests of the dominant class. Well, my whole blog gives endless indirect reasons why not to become a prostitute. I do enjoy sex and do enjoy it with some clients, so for me personally, it can be positive. However, most escorts do not have my outlooks. The reality is that most escorts do not enjoy their work, and are doing it solely for money.
Even if a woman can enjoy it, she has to be strong enough to overcome the potential consequences of this work: A very resilient woman can overcome these emotional stresses, yet many cannot. I had the same question when I first joined the sex industry. I had absolutely no idea what the answer would be. I learned that many had their own methods to deal with the blood. Some women used contraceptives which made their menses disappear altogether.
Another technique was used when the period was in its lighter stages in which a red colored condom is used to disguise any droplets of blood. The sponge is not felt during sex and it captures the blood thus making the sex blood-free.
Indeed there are many clients who seek companionship over sexual intercourse. There are many other sexual acts besides penetration that some men seek. Regardless, most clients desire some form of release. It is a rarity.
If the man paying for her company likes her, then he will offer more money to get sexual services. The money is too tempting for such a woman to say no. A social-only escort could not charge the rates of a prostitute.
For instance, there are some women who provide services other than actual sex. Rate is generally determined by the amount of service provided. All publications by the author of exoticescortdiary. An Exotic Escort's Diary.. How do escorts lure men to them? Or in other words, how do escorts attract clients?
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Some come into the business hoping to meet people from around the world and enjoy their time with them. Everybody involved in or getting into escort services knows that sex is a big part of her work. This should be absolutely clear in your mind.
You also should ask yourself whether you are ready to commit to becoming an escort. Like every other legitimate business, you need to be in the industry for some time to start seeing the kind of money that you dream of when you begin.
It means that you need to be committed for the long term. This is not mandatory of course, but you still want to be sure about starting out as an escort. Many believe that an escort is just a glamorized version of a prostitute, but it is far from where the truth actually lies.
The client base for an escort is completely different than that for a prostitute. It is true that you may be able to meet clients from all over the world. You may be able to travel with them to high profile parties, where you meet many more people from various backgrounds.
However, you need to be comfortable with having sex with your clients, because it is unofficially accepted that they are paying you in part for it. If you are not ready to provide sexual services as well, your career as an escort will be very limited because there are clients who just want your company for a brief period of time.
If your answer is in the affirmative, then you can confidently go ahead with your decision. One of the advantages of becoming an escort is that after a while, you can choose your working times. You can put forward your terms and you accept only those clients that need services within your chosen time frame and service scope.
Many escorts work part time in addition to their regular work. They earn a lot of money this way, which is why you see so many escorts who are flush with money. However, if you are flexible with your timings, it only works in your favor, because you will have a greater number of potential clients and will mostly be assured an appointment.
However, the important point to consider here is that you always have a choice in this business. You decide how much you want to earn and then set your work hours according to that goal. You know that you will be having sex frequently with strangers in your work as an escort. This could be a contentious issue with your family who will either not approve of it or will be concerned about your safety.
Although escorts are largely accepted as professionals, it may still concern your family and they may be worried about the image you create for yourself around others. Similarly, consider whether you are ready to tell your friends about being an escort, and whether they will accept your choice. As with everything in life, it is a choice you make and there are some tradeoffs.
Now, it is completely possible that both your family and friends accept your choice and be fine with it. Many escorts simply do not reveal that they are escorts to their family and friends.
They thus do not have to face this dilemma. An important thing about the escort business is that there is very little information floating out there about you. Officially, there is no way for anybody to know that you had sex with your clients.
You could just put your profession forward as a clean one. Here is how you can become an escort and still be safe. When you are an escort, you do not reveal much information about yourself to even your clients.
All escorts use aliases when they meet clients, so there is no personally identifying information that people have about you. The smart escorts are careful not to let their pictures circulate and be associated online with the escort business.
As mentioned earlier, being an escort is much more about sex. Remember you are accompanying your client to various places. Your client may be a high profile businessman with prestige in his industry. When you accompany such a person, you are part of his image and how you handle yourself among other high profile people matters a lot. In other words, the escort business is very much a people business. You need to know how to handle people and how to communicate with them effectively.
Of course, it does matter how good you look. However, you need your whole body to be in shape. This is why many escorts feel that you should become an escort only if you are happy and comfortable doing so. If you have a certain comfort level, you will be more confident and will come across as a beautiful person for company. People who hire escorts on a regular basis know what the really good escorts are like.
If you want to attract clients who pay big money, you need to convince them that you have the required skills. If you are of a very strong nature and are independent, an escort job will suit you just fine. You will of course need to figure out whether you have polished skills when talking with people.
It also matters whether you can keep your client in good humor, because that is what company is all about. You may want to become an escort just so you can earn a bit of extra money. If that is the case, you are likely considering part time work as an escort. This is a good choice, especially when you are getting started. It helps you learn more about the escort service industry, while still holding on to the comfort of your regular job.
This is, in fact, how many successful escorts start their work. If you are going to work part time, you need to consider how you might divide your time.