People think that "casual" means the sex takes no thought and fits as comfortably as sweatpants. But the truth is, you have to date for years before sex gets like that. Monogamy does have a few benefits, after all! Here are ten steps to getting recreational sex right: Be Nice Just because you're never going to see someone again doesn't mean that your manners should fly out the window.
Don't Worry So Much About Inner Beauty One of the best things about casual sex is that you can forget all about soul-mates and long-term compatibility and just focus on a pure, chemical connection: You can sleep with someone just because you like their accent, for example. Or you can sleep with someone who is far too young -- or too old -- for you. And you can enjoy a guilt-free rendezvous with someone who has a surplus of outer beauty but is somewhat lacking in other departments.
Be Honest Just because you're doing away with guilt, doesn't mean you should do away with honesty, too. Don't ever lie about your intentions to get someone into bed.
Man up -- or woman up -- and admit you're just looking for a roll in the hay. And never give a fake number or ask for a number you have no intention of calling. Be a Decent Host Or At Least a Polite Guest We don't care how casual the hookup, it's just plain rude to kick someone to the curb at 5 a. Let them sleep over. That said, be aware that snuggling for more than 15 minutes may send a mixed message -- but that said, don't be confused if your one-night stand wants to spoon all night.
Some people like a little casual intimacy on the side. And be sure to leave a cheery note; phone number not required. Be Safe Always always always use protection correctly. Pigster Follow 39 followers 17 badges Send a private message to Pigster. Follow 9 You could buy a dildo? I wonder if that'll get through the filter. I didn't expect that. Last edited by Pigster; at Bulletzone Follow 33 followers 22 badges Send a private message to Bulletzone. Follow 10 Follow 11 Original post by Pigster You could buy a dildo?
I think a lot of guys would be absolutely flattered if you went up and asked for sex straight up. Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play. Follow 13 And the only reason the other one would refuse is if he was gay. Follow 14 Original post by TrelaiBoy I don't think that's what they're designed for.
Follow 15 I know that won't get through the filter. Follow 16 Ask someone, a lot of guys dream of a girl asking to have sex with them. Last edited by TrelaiBoy; at Would it not be considered sexual harrassment for a man to randomly approach girls to ask for sex?
And yet that's what some people are suggesting that the OP does to men Double standards clearly exist. Tinder, easily or any dating site most guys on dating sites are just looking for hookups anyways so go for it. Follow 0 followers 10 badges Send a private message to Scorpio. Follow 20 Does no one have any self respect anymore, or am I just old fashioned?
This forum is supported by: England v Belgium What are your predictions? How stressful are A levels? How happy are you now exams are over? Allegations of racism at Cambridge. Andrews University - official applicants thread Started by: St Andrews University Replies: Count to a million Part 26 Started by: University of Cambridge Replies: Current Medical Students and Doctors Replies:.. Weird question, i know. Here's the problem: I'm feeling quite horny and most guys wouldn't expect me to enjoy casual sex so without asking them for it directly i. Casual sex is fun, fantastic, and freeing. Yet, what risks of harm does the act present to societies and individuals?. 14 Jul I sometimes feel like casual sex is like a transaction if we don't cuddle or do stuff afterwards. It's a shitty feeling if he's texting other girls.